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Dec 2024
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701: Mastering Confidence: The Blueprint...

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In this powerhouse episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, we’re diving deep into what it takes to truly master confidence. Joined by the incredible Bozoma Saint John, Todd Herman, and yours truly, we’re sharing actionable tools and transformative mindsets to help you step into your boldest, most authentic self. From Bozoma’s advice on seizing every opportunity and sticking to your unique gifts, to Todd’s insights on creating alter egos and embracing different identities for different roles, to my take on why confidence starts with feeling more like you—this conversation is packed with strategies to help you show up, stand out, and thrive. Whether you’re chasing a big dream, navigating a new season, or just trying to feel more like the best version of yourself, this episode is your blueprint for building boldness and embracing your authentic power. Let’s dive in!

00:00 Embracing Your Unique Gift

00:34 Introduction to the Show

01:02 Navigating Career Uncertainty

02:06 Facing Imposter Syndrome

02:38 Seizing Opportunities with Gratitude

04:42 Confidence and Self-Belief

08:11 Overcoming Criticism and Staying True

13:04 The Importance of Self-Promotion

15:12 The Power of Alter Egos

16:19 Imposter Syndrome and Social Media

17:58 The Trapped Self vs. The Heroic Self

19:49 Using Alter Egos for Personal Growth

21:34 Disassociation and Performance

29:41 Building a Successful Career

31:04 Understanding Confidence

35:13 Cognitive Dissonance and Authenticity

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