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Nov 2024
15m 28s

What to Say to Dismissive Replies

Civility Media
About this episode
Someone brushes off their rude comments with, “It was just a joke.” Or they tell you, “Don’t take it personally,” or, “You’re too sensitive.”  These comments might seem small. But they can slowly tear down your self-esteem.  The good news? You don’t have to let them shake you.  In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple ways to respond to dismissive comments. The ... Show More
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