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Nov 2024
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#171 How to Become SECURE in Your Relati...

Shivani Pau
About this episode

In this solo episode of A Millennial Mind, I discuss the importance of security in relationships. Being secure is crucial for a healthy relationship, and I delve deep into how to trust your intuition, own your feelings, communicate openly with your partner, and create a safe emotional space. I'll share personal stories and practical tips on rebuilding self-confidence and letting go of past toxic relationships.


This episode also touches on identifying red and green flags in relationships, and understanding the importance of healing and self-love. Tune in for insightful advice and strategies that can help you create more secure and fulfilling relationships.


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00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

00:25 Setting the Stage: Security in Relationships

04:12 Trusting Yourself: The Foundation of Security

06:50 Listening to and Owning Your Feelings

10:32 Creating a Safe Emotional Space

15:03 Healing and Self-Care

19:32 Identifying Red and Green Flags

24:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


I really enjoyed filming this episode so let me know what you think!!

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