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Nov 2024
46m 49s

#23 - The REAL Reason Your Relationships...

Danny Morel and Jen Landesberg
About this episode

In this week’s episode of Finding The One, Danny and Jen don’t hold back as they dive into the messy reality of relationship conflict. After a tough night dealing with their daughter’s fever, they start unpacking a common pattern they keep seeing: that back-and-forth cycle of intense closeness followed by sudden distance. Why does it feel like the connection is so fragile, and what’s actually fueling the tension?


Danny and Jen get real about the deep-rooted issues most of us carry into relationships—things like trauma, old wounds, and subconscious habits that keep us stuck in a loop of arguments and drama. Jen owns up to her realization that a part of her is actually hooked on suffering, while Danny breaks down how easy it is to slip into playing the victim and avoid taking real responsibility.


If you’re done pointing fingers and ready to take a hard look at how you might be sabotaging your relationship, don’t miss this episode.


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Connect with Danny Morel:

Website | https://www.dannymorel.com/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/dannymorel/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@DannyMorelYT


Connect with Jen Landesberg:

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/jenlandesberg/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@BlessedYoga

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