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Nov 2024
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262. What Dating a Provider ACTUALLY Mea...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

This is the LAST EPISODE of 2024! Can you believe it? brb be back Jan 2025 habibti!

In this episode we chat:

  • My thoughts on the conversation around "gold diggers" in dating when it comes to women dating providers
  • Why I believe ONLY dating a man for his money (as in NOT CARING about him, only caring about what is in his bank) is actually a form of LACK mindset in dating
  •  The bible's take on men who do NOT provide
  • How ONLY dating a man for his money can actually be a symptom of an inability to connect emotionally with men.

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