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Oct 5
59m 44s

Stop Mothering Your Partner

Alex Cooper
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This week, Alex discusses a dynamic so many women fall into… mothering their male partner. From packing his suitcase to reminding him of appointments, she breaks down where mothering creeps in, why it’s the biggest turnoff, and how to set boundaries so you’re not carrying the whole load. Alex also talks about what to do when you’ve been with someone for eight years and still don’t have a ring, plus how to bring up wanting more oral sex in your relationship. Finally, she gives advice on dating a man with a child, and what to do when your parents don’t approve of your lifestyle. Enjoy!


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