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Nov 2024
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431: Relationships, Toxic Emotions, and ...

MICHELLE CHALFANT
About this episode

Today, we're diving into the world of emotional alignment and self-trust with the incredible Leah Guy, a spiritual teacher and intuitive healing artist. If you've ever found yourself chasing after external validation through relationships or career success, this episode is for you.

 

We kick things off by exploring how misalignment with our higher selves can leave us feeling off-kilter, like we're constantly efforting and pushing without making progress. But fear not, Leah is here to guide us back to our center and help us cultivate a loving relationship with ourselves and the divine.

 

We also touch on the power of surrender and openness, encouraging you to chase your dreams, no matter your age. It's all about transforming those pesky emotional wounds into stepping stones for growth and fulfillment. Plus, we discuss the art of processing toxic emotions, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering meaningful connections even when beliefs differ.

 

Oh, and did we mention it's the 10-year anniversary of The Adult Chair Podcast? We're so grateful for your support over the years, and if you enjoy the show, don't forget to leave a review or share it with a friend. Join us as we continue building a community rooted in authenticity and alignment.

In this episode, you will hear:
  • Identifying signs of misalignment with one's higher self and the pursuit of external validation.
  • Understanding toxic emotions and their impact on personal growth.
  • Building trust within oneself and with the divine to alleviate stress and fear.
  • Embracing dreams, taking risks, and healing emotional wounds for personal transformation.
  • Navigating emotional imprints, toxic emotions, and maintaining healthy relationships through boundaries.
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IG: @leahthemodernsage

YouTube: Leah Guy - https://www.youtube.com/@LeahGuy 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leahthemodernsage 

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