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Nov 2024
1h 7m

321. Alexi Panos - Former People-Pleaser...

Morgan Nelson
About this episode

Is your nervous system in survival mode? Discover how our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and learn how to heal from the patterns that no longer serve us. Join me and the incredible Alexi Panos as she discusses the impact of modern life on our nervous systems and feelings of safety, the dynamics of attachment styles and their influence on our relationships, and the balance between discipline and self-care in the pursuit of our goals. Tune in to explore your relationships, pursue personal growth, and uncover the patterns that may be holding you back.


Episode Highlights:

00:00 - Episode trailer

02:25 - Why do people people-please

05:09 - How attachment styles can influence people-pleasing behaviors

06:47 - The Brain-Body Connection

08:29 - Survival Mode and Modern Life

13:01 -  The Cost of High Performance

20:30 - Understanding Hormonal Dynamics in Relationships

32:58  - Understanding self-betrayal

37:58 - The balance between discipline and self-care

40:10 - The Cost of Achievement

44:49 - Attracting Reflections of Our Inner Struggles

53:03 - Filling the Inner Void

01:02:52 - Breaking Free from the Drama Triangle


About my guest:

Alexi Panos is a dynamic transformational feminine embodiment coach, speaker, and writer dedicated to making personal development accessible and enjoyable. Renowned for her energetic delivery, she has been recognized as one of ORIGIN Magazine’s Top 100 Creatives Changing the World and has received accolades such as Elixir Magazine's Millennial Mentor Award. As a featured star in the documentary The Abundance Factor, Alexi is on a mission to inspire and empower others through her forthcoming book, 50 Ways to Yay, published by Simon & Schuster. With her innovative Bridge Method, she facilitates workshops globally and hosts a popular YouTube series that captivates over two million viewers. Additionally, through her nonprofit E.P.I.C, she works to drill clean water wells, furthering her commitment to creating meaningful change. Alexi’s ultimate goal is to empower one billion individuals to harness their unique gifts, fostering a ripple effect of positivity and love across the world. 


Connect with Alexi

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexipanos/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AlexiPanos

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alexipanospage/


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