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Oct 2025
32m 51s

The Birth You Wanted vs. The Birth You G...

ERIKA DE PELLEGRIN
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The birth you wanted vs. the birth you got ... For so many mums, that gap is filled with disappointment, guilt, and even grief. In this deeply honest conversation, we share our own birth stories — from placenta previa and breech presentations, to unexpected C-sections and the heavy judgments that followed. We open up about the stigma, the shame, and the hear ... Show More
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