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Oct 2024
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401: It Ends With Us: Monica’s Unfiltere...

Monica Yates
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Red Flags in Relationships, the Complexity of Abuse, and the Path to Healing


**Content Warning:** This episode discusses themes of domestic abuse and violence, which may be distressing for some listeners. We encourage you to prioritize your well-being and take care while listening. If you or someone you know is affected by these issues, please seek support from a professional.


Today, we're diving into the emotional rollercoaster of "It Ends With Us," where Monica breaks it all down like only she can! Join us as she uses this powerful story (and most popular movie of the summer) to shine a light on the complexities of trauma and relationships, highlighting red flags to watch out for and what not to do in your own love life.


From heart-wrenching moments to life lessons, Monica’s insights are both eye-opening and relatable. So grab your popcorn and settle in, because this is one discussion you won’t want to miss!


Here’s a little taste of what she’s covering inside:


🥀 Why It's Hard to Leave Toxic Relationships

🥀 How Insecurities from Parents and Partners Shape Us

🥀 Healthy VS. Toxic Expressions of Masculine Aggression

🥀 Navigating Boundaries and Assertiveness in Early Dating

🥀 Forward VS. Pushy Behavior in Dating

🥀 Balancing Autonomy and Chase in Relationships

🥀 Recognizing True Dominance VS Abuse in Relationship s

🥀 Signs of Emotional Manipulation

🥀 How to Stand Firm in Your Boundaries

🥀 Understanding the Complexity of Abuse

🥀 The Toxic Dynamics of Jealousy and Communication in Relationships

🥀 How to Get Over Your Partner’s Past

🥀 Choosing Safety Over Abuse

🥀  The Path to Healing & Moving Forward


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As Mentioned In The Episode — 


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⇢ The Man: ⁠https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-man


⇢ It Ends With Us BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Ends-Us-Novel-Colleen-Hoover/dp/1501110365/ 


⇢ It Ends With Us MOVIE: https://www.amazon.com/Ends-Us-Justin-Baldoni/dp/B0DBMQN8C2/ 


⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth  


⇢ Full Podcast Directory (specifically the Sex Life Episodes - CTL + F “Sex Life” for those ones):

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory 


⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth  


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