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Aug 2023
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When she felt like she couldn't ditch hi...

Pionaire Podcasting
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This week we're raising awareness for The Salvation Army DV Center in NWFL: https://salvationarmyflorida.org/domestic-violence-program/

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YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:51): How they met

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(05:31): The cracks in their relationship

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(08:29): When the relationship really started to fall apart [CW: sexual assault]

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(11:52): The final straw

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(14:11): Reflecting on her SA

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(16:46): Reflecting on reasons why she stayed in the relationship

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(19:23): How his family played into the break up

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(23:37): How she moved on from the relationship

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(27:56): Healing from her SA

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(33:02): Advice

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(36:33): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: Sexual Assault]



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