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Oct 2024
24m 4s

The Lies We Were Sold (Our Definitions o...

The Angry Therapist
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Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's ... Show More
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