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Oct 2023
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535 - "Just because you love me doesn't ...

CASE KENNY
About this episode
In this episode, I talk about the difference between being loved and feeling loved and when you need to say "just because you love me doesn't mean I feel loved." I talk about your love language vs. theirs. Want more? My book "That's Bold of You" is available on Amazon. Instagram: @case.kenny 
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