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Relationship coach Kim Anami shares transformative insights on how to elevate your relationship and enrich your life through the power of authentic, high-quality physical intimacy.

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0:00 Intro

13:30 Kim is a holistic sex and relationship coach.

15:19 Physical health impacts vitality, libido and your sex life.

17:00 Beliefs, programming, or trauma blocks pure expression of sexual energy.

19:26 Orgasm is the most effective, biggest and fastest nervous system reset.

22:50 Clitoral orgasm is superficial compared with cervical and vaginal orgasm.

29:10 Having a cervical orgasm opens a neuropathway which can be accessed repeatedly.

31:15 Surrender is the key ingredient in gourmet sex.

33:24 Casual sex is not safe or healthy for either partner.

32:52 Conscious celibacy is advised during healing.

36:47 If you are attracting people who do not reflect your ideals, there is more work to do.

41:02 Long-term relationships can have high frequency gourmet sex.

43:17 Conscious monogamy produces the ultimate utilization of sexual power.

45:37 Schedule a weekly 3-hour sex date.

55:42 Male orgasm without ejaculation is regenerating.

 

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