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Mar 2025
34m 6s

Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself.

Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The secret to orgasming in any position (without wrecking your calves).
  • How to bring back the heat after a dry spell—without the pressure.
  • The power move that gets your partner to switch things up in bed.


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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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