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93. Not for Fireworks + What to Say to Y...

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This is an episode of complaints, and it starts out with a new long-titled segment about places where people are not allowed to take videos, lest they suffer Caroline’s wrath. Jess chimes in with Instagram stories that are not allowed, and then the pair wonder together why more women don’t name children after themselves. 

Then, a listener WHATADO about how to work with a friend who can’t stop talking about their toxic relationship. What’s the best route for a friend who cares? Plus, we’ve got a Botox story, and thoughts on “spicy” self care and bad medical experiences. We’ll do anything to get this scientific information to you!


This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse.

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