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Apr 2025
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Abandoned after his parents’ devastating divorce, a neglected teenage son is committed to a psychiatric facility, whose barbaric practices reveal a far more sinister agenda. 

Today’s episode featured Banning Lyon. You can email Banning at banning.r.lyon@gmail.com or contact him on Instagram @banningwrites

You can find out more about Banning, his book “The Chair And The Valley” and how to contact him at banninglyon.com. 

A special thanks to Todd Rennebohm of the Bunny Hugs & Mental Health podcast for referring Banning to us.

Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock

Content/Trigger Warnings: divorce, familial rejection and estrangement, mention of suicide, psychiatric abuse, death due to past drug use, explicit language

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