logo
episode-header-image
Sep 2024
33m 7s

How to stop being desperate - become obs...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

There's nothing worse than desperate energy when you are constantly chasing after people or wanting them to be obsessed with you or validate you in some way, shape or form. In this episode, I talk about how you should focus on becoming obsessed with yourself and not tolerating BS from anyone around you. I also cover how to set your standards high and the boss a** b*tch that you truly are.

I have a detachment masterclass, as well as a new masterclass for health and wellness coming later this year.

JOIN THE MASTERCLASS - if it's not open yet, be sure to join the waitlist for the next launch!

I love you, sending you all my hugs and healing energy as always -Lyss

Up next
Nov 2
nothing changes if nothing changes.
contact: hello@lyssboss.combe sure to drop a comment on spotify if you enjoyed this ep, i read everything :) 
30m 14s
Oct 28
how to quantum leap into a new reality.
thanks for being here xhello@lyssboss.com-Lyss 
13m 46s
Oct 22
stop looking for signs, you ARE the sign.
you are the sign. 
15m 24s
Recommended Episodes
Apr 2025
Episode 213: Stop Placing Them on a Pedestal & Reclaim Your Power
tail spinning
30m 2s
Nov 2023
Stop Being Desperate
STOP BEING DESPERATE!! If you find yourself begging for partners to treat you right, double-texting your friends for a response, or chasing fame and success, listen to this episode.In today’s episode, I talk about my own experience and how I reeked of desperation as I chased rela ... Show More
34m 4s
Nov 2022
How to Stop Rushing + Obsessing Over Your Relationships
Have you ever found yourself obsessing, spiraling, and rushing your relationships? Maybe you've spent way to much time overanalyzing his texts, stalking his social media, or giving a guy way to much mental real estate. In today's episode, I'm going to help you reclaim your inner ... Show More
15m 22s
Mar 2021
#5: Insecurities- If I'm not the BEST, then I'm GARBAGE!
We've all got insecurities...but what if you're obsessed with being "THE BEST" at something, otherwise you feel like you're nothing at all? In today's episode, I talk about how to release this pattern of overcompensation, and start building true, authentic self-worth.🙏 Apply To ... Show More
23m 5s
Jul 2023
#89: How to Care Less About Others' Opinions (For the Recovering People Pleaser)
<p>Are you feeling stuck in the perennial battle between seeking external validation and staying true to your authentic self? In today&apos;s Q&amp;A episode, I&apos;m sharing some thoughts on how to detach from unhealthy people-pleasing behaviours that ask us to trade our authen ... Show More
13m 10s
Feb 2022
Obsession and What It Might Say About Your Relationship to Yourself
In this episode, I talk about being obsessed with partners and being obsessed with those who have wronged you and what that behaviour might actually reveal about your relationship with yourself. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for more! To be cl ... Show More
29m 12s
Jul 2025
Give Me 10 Minutes...I’ll Save You 10 Years Wasted on the WRONG Person | Matt Monday
<p>Are you stuck obsessing over someone who’s wrong for you? In this week’s epsiode, I dive into the concept of limerence—the unhealthy fixation on someone who doesn’t return your feelings—and how it can keep you chasing as your confidence falls lower and lower. I’ll show you how ... Show More
10m 31s
Jan 2020
166 - Be a "thirst trap"
<p>In this episode I talk about the power of a "just jump in" mindset and how to truly not care what other people might think about you. I talk about why it's ok to come off as a "thirst trap" if that's what people think. Who cares?! This is a powerful mindset to give you momentu ... Show More
20m 40s
Sep 2024
Heal + Create Safety with Love and Money
Ever feel like you’re constantly chasing the next big thing—whether it's in your business, your love life, or just trying to keep up with what you see on Instagram? You’re not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into how I got caught up in the hustle, trying to force success and ... Show More
30m 7s