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Sep 2024
33m 7s

How to stop being desperate - become obs...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

There's nothing worse than desperate energy when you are constantly chasing after people or wanting them to be obsessed with you or validate you in some way, shape or form. In this episode, I talk about how you should focus on becoming obsessed with yourself and not tolerating BS from anyone around you. I also cover how to set your standards high and the boss a** b*tch that you truly are.

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I love you, sending you all my hugs and healing energy as always -Lyss

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