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Sep 2024
47m 39s

Dealing with hurtful people who won't ch...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
Have you ever wondered why some people just won't change no matter how much you try? Don't they see that they are hurtful and toxic? Why can't they just be "normal"? I try to answer all of these questions and more in this episode. 
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