In this episode of Unhooked, host Jeremy Lipkowitz engages in a profound conversation with Jacob O'Neill, a men's leadership coach and founder of the Gathering of Men in Australia. They explore the concept of men's initiation, the impact of modern society on masculinity, and the importance of reconnecting with one's raw masculine power. Jacob shares his personal journey of healing, the significance of integration after transformative experiences, and his insights on conducting powerful men's retreats. This dialogue is filled with wisdom on how men can navigate their inner and outer worlds, emphasizing the roles of guidance and community in fostering responsible masculine leadership. Tune in to discover how men's work can be both challenging and joyfully fulfilling.
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Shownotes:
00:00 The Modern Man's Struggle with Comfort and Risk
01:22 Introduction to the Guest: Jacob O'Neill
01:35 Jacob's Work and Philosophy on Men's Leadership
03:12 The Consequences of Modern Society's Structure on Men
06:21 Jacob's Personal Journey and Transformative Experiences
09:35 The Role of Plant Medicine and Sacred Practices
14:28 The Birth of Men's Movement and Personal Challenges
17:37 The Dark Masculine and Coping Mechanisms
24:09 The Impact of Childhood Shame on Masculinity
26:05 Shedding the Cloak of Shame
26:52 The Power of Men's Retreats
28:28 Understanding Initiation
29:41 The Cyclical Nature of Manhood
34:59 The Importance of Mentorship
36:08 Creating a Safe Space for Transformation
43:43 The Joy of Men's Work
45:10 Integration and Human Connection
51:23 Upcoming Retreat and Final Thoughts
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ABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWITZ
Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.
For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.
Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.