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Sep 2024
21m 31s

Sexless Relationships vs. Fulfilled Rela...

Coffee and Cleavage
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In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary dive into the complexities of sexless relationships and why some partners lose interest in sex. They explore the reasons behind the decline in sexual activity, from unrealistic expectations to lack of communication and connection. The trio also discusses the broader trend of decreasing sexual activity among younger generations and offers practical tips for reigniting the spark in your relationship. Tune in for a candid conversation on navigating intimacy and keeping your relationship fufilled with your connection alive.

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