Jan 2022

51m 22s

The Truth About Modern Men And Casual Se...

About this episode

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal?

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk:

How men and women think about casual sex in 2022.
What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive).
How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection.

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