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Sep 2024
1h 19m

Finding liberation through sacred rage w...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

  • What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma

  • Exactly what an angergasm is

  • Why emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain

  • The importance of presence in trauma healing

  • A simple practice for containing emotions and pain

  • Foundational steps for emotional liberation

Bio

Formally, Cory Scott is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), a EMDRIA certified Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) therapist, a licensed yoga teacher (RYT-500) and a VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coach and senior teacher.

As a trauma integration coach, she specializes in supporting highly successful people to resolve lingering trauma patterns that have kept them stuck. She helps them to integrate their experiences, harness their strength and live into freedom and expansion beyond their wildest dreams. 

Cory’s coaching draws on her extensive experience working with clients and her deep knowledge of trauma, somatics and interpersonal neurobiology. She combines energetic and embodiment practices, along with rewiring and integration tools to unwind trauma responses and re-create a strong, stable, balanced internal ecology. 

Along with her private client work, Cory also teaches part-time for VITA™ Coaching and provides professional consultation to coaches and therapists.

She lives on a 78-acre farm in the mountains of southern Appalachia with her partner of 19 years, their two beautiful children, an old dog, a young dog and a clowder of cats. In addition to her extensive studies, she has gained much of her integrated and embodied wisdom from her own journey of deep trauma healing and personal transformation.

To learn more about Cory’s work and connect with her, ⁠click here⁠ to visit her website.

Timestamps

00:01:43 - Guest introduction

00:03:38 - Cory’s perspective on trauma healing

00:05:14 - What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma

00:06:52 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠

00:09:06 - What can stabilization after trauma healing look like?

00:11:47 - Layla shares one of the few regrets she has in life

00:14:44 - Why anger is the same energy as passion

00:16:37 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 

00:20:33 - The importance of safety in the trauma world

00:27:22 - It’s possible to experience pleasure and joy in the height of shame and anger

00:29:07 - Layla explains exactly what an angergasm is

00:34:18 - Discover ⁠MOOD™ Sexy Supplements⁠

00:35:27 - Get Layla’s free ⁠Orgasmic Breathwork Practice⁠ for deeper pleasure

00:36:36 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with ⁠Men’s Sexual Mastery⁠

00:43:04 - Layla explains how she’s working through relational shame

00:47:56 - Cory shares her personal journey through trauma

00:55:15 - Emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain

00:59:18 - When to go into safety and calm vs feeling your emotions

01:02:04 - Why presence is so important for trauma healing

01:02:48 - Cory shares a simple practice for containing emotions and pain

01:06:50 - Foundational steps for emotional liberation

01:14:07 - “⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching⁠ is for the leaders of our world”

01:19:23 - Conclusion

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