A lot of us aren’t getting what we really want in bed. For example, there might be certain positions, activities, or techniques that you prefer or enjoy, but you aren’t quite sure how to ask for them. So in today’s show, we’re going to talk about how to get more of what you want. Some of the topics we’ll explore include practical tips for sharing ... Show More
Jul 28
Episode 522: What People’s Sex Diaries Reveal About Modern Intimacy
Most of us only get small glimpses into other people’s sex lives, which can make our own experiences feel more unusual than they really are. But what happens when you spend years hearing the unfiltered truth about people’s desires, insecurities, relationships, and intimate experi ... Show More
30m 24s
Jul 23
Episode 521: An Intimacy Coordinator’s Tips For Better Sex
In the previous episode, we went behind the scenes of film and television to explore how intimacy coordinators help create authentic, safe, and compelling intimate scenes. But the lessons from this profession extend far beyond Hollywood. In this episode, we’re bringing those less ... Show More
32m 23s
Jul 21
Episode 520: How Sex Scenes Really Get Made
Sex scenes have been part of film and television for decades, but the way they’re created has changed dramatically. Today, many productions rely on intimacy coordinators to help choreograph intimate scenes while fostering safety, collaboration, and creativity on set. In this epis ... Show More
34m 11s
Oct 2023
How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life: Surprising Ways to Make Sex Better Even if You Are Tired, Single… or Not in the Mood
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to have better sex. You have an appointment with a leading sex expert, Dr. Emily Morse. I will be the first to admit that I want to have better sex, but I don’t know how to achieve it.</p><p> </p><p>And I’m asking all the uncomfortab ... Show More
1h 25m
Sep 2024
How To Ask For What You Want
So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too ... Show More
50m 26s
May 2025
EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex
Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication.
In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should ... Show More
43m 47s
Jul 2022
How We Found Sexual Satisfaction with Different Sex Drives | Relationship Theory
Dealing with mismatched sex drives can be horrifying, frustrating and a host of other undesired emotions for both partners. How do you find compromise when one partner is in the mood every day, any time ready to go, and the other partner could check in once or twice a week and be ... Show More
32m 24s
Oct 2020
272: Understanding Our Sexual Needs For A Better Relationship
We all have ideal sexual ideas for what we'd like to see in our relationship. Often these ideals are not met, or understood, resulting in relationship issues. Listen to today's show to learn how to identify your sexual needs, communicate them with your partner and improve your re ... Show More
40m 24s
Jan 2025
EP420 - Exploring Sexual Intimacy: Preferences, Desires and Fantasies
Welcome to Episode 420 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome a returning guest, Dr. Alison Ash who speaks to me about the fascinating realm of sexual fantasies, preferences, and the art of open communication with partners. Dr. Aly offers practical tools and exerci ... Show More
34m 13s
Jun 2022
358: How To Increase Pleasure And Get In Touch With Your Sexuality
Who doesn't want to feel more pleasure!? Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable tips to increase your pleasure, get in touch with your sexuality and start to have mind-blowing sex. In this episode with Nicoletta Heidegger, we discuss relationship advice topics that i ... Show More
41m 9s
Mar 2025
Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. </p><p>If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. </p><p>Here to ... Show More
1h 20m