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Aug 2024
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healthy but wanting to be HER (true iden...

Callie Jardine-Gualy
About this episode

I've spent most of my life trying to be a watered down version of someone else... falling into trend traps, jealousy, comparison and insecurity. One minute I want to be an earthy surfer girl, the next "that girl" with perfectly put together everything. It's confusing... I want to be secure in who I really am made to be. Sound anything like you?

In today's very real and vulnerable solo episode, we are going to talk about how to identify when we're living a life full of discontentment and insecurity, ultimately answering the question of "Is it bad to want what someone else has?"

Things we chat about:

  • the time I pretended to be rich and famous
  • identifying the root of our discontentment (inner healing)
  • feeling secure v. insecure (what causes both)
  • knowing your personal style v. trend traps and influencers


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ily xx Cal

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