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Aug 2024
13m 53s

What's holding you back in love?

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Exploring the common barriers to forming fulfilling romantic relationships, from unrealistic expectations to poor communication and fear of rejection.

Savvy Psychologist is hosted by Dr. Monica Johnson. A transcript is available at Simplecast.

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