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Jan 2023
25m 14s

Can We Detect Rejection?

ARS LONGA MEDIA
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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy from a scientifically informed perspective. This show often centers around the topics of narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and the negative effects of being exposed to a narcissist in the workplace, family, or in a romantic relationship. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 


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Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

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