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Sep 2023
34m 18s

Title: Are You Sabotaging Your Search fo...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let's delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a partner that might be sabotaging their love lives – and discover how to break free from these patterns.

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