logo
episode-header-image
Jul 2024
32m 48s

15. Why His Addiction Is NOT Your Fault ...

Mandy | Betrayal, Break Up & Empowerment Life Coach
About this episode

One of the hardest self-limiting beliefs I had to overcome on my healing journey was thinking his addiction was because I wasn't good enough, wasn't attractive enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc.

I HATED my body after discovering the betrayal and my self-confidence was gooonnneeeee. I thought if I was "better" or more attractive I could have prevented it. These are awful lies we tell ourselves, especially considering HIS ADDICTION STARTED BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IT STARTED BEFORE HE EVEN MET YOU.

In this episode, we dive into this and I back it up with what sexual addiction therapists have said as well. 

Would you like help in your healing journey from his porn use?

  • Click here to schedule a FREE 60-minute Empowerment & Transformation call with me and we'll chat about how my Women's Empowerment & Transformation coaching services can help create a new you using healing modalities from my 380+ hours of certifications
  • This is a safe, confidential, shame-free, and judgment-free space. I understand the feelings of insecurity, self-blame, self-loathing, confusion, loneliness, sadness, anxiety, fear, heartbreak, and painful emotions. You don't need to navigate this pain alone!
  • Learn more at the "WTF Do I Do Now" website here.

Follow along on social media:

**Please subscribe and rate the show so the algorithm can help more girls can find this resource and know they aren't alone in their healing journey from his porn use! <3

Up next
Jun 19
42. How to Navigate the In Between Phase After the Relationship Ends
Ready to transform your life after discovering his betrayal (cheating, p*rn use, etc.)? Membership for women who left him: Click here Book a 1-on-1 Support Call: click here Self-paced, online course "Betrayal Survival Guide": Click here 4-month private coaching application: Click ... Show More
28m 43s
Jun 13
41. How to Go No Contact
Ready to transform your life after discovering his betrayal (cheating, p*rn use, etc.)? Membership for women who left him: Click here Book a 1-on-1 Support Call: click here Self-paced, online course "Betrayal Survival Guide": Click here 4-month private coaching application: Click ... Show More
21m 43s
Jun 2
40. How to Handle Rejection
Ready to transform your life after discovering his betrayal (cheating, p*rn use, etc.)? Membership for women who left him: Click here Book a 1-on-1 Support Call: click here Self-paced, online course "Betrayal Survival Guide": Click here 4-month private coaching application: Click ... Show More
25m 59s
Recommended Episodes
Dec 2024
#431 Is a Porn Addiction Destroying Your Relationship?
Is pornography addiction taking a toll on your life or relationship? You’re not alone, and real help is here! 🙌 In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success, I sit down with the incredible Sathiya Sam, founder of the Deep Clean program, to discuss what recovery from porn addi ... Show More
39m 48s
Dec 2024
53: From Addiction to Connection: Healing Porn Addiction with Tantra
In this deeply compassionate and transformative episode, Anne Bland tackles a listener-requested topic: porn addiction and how it impacts our relationships, intimacy, and sense of self. While pornography is widely consumed, compulsive use can lead to disconnection, shame, and cha ... Show More
26m 14s
Jul 7
Dr K (Bad Habit Addiction Doctor): The Truth About Dopamine, Addiction, Pornography & Masturbation
World-Renowned Addiction Expert Dr. K reveals the SHOCKING truth about masturbation, pornography, dopamine burnout, incels, and why 60% of men under 30 are single. Dr K from Healthy Gamer! Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka Dr. K) is a world-leading addiction expert, Harvard-trained psychiatr ... Show More
1h 58m
Jul 2024
Sathiya Sam of DeepClean on How Men Can Overcome Porn Addiction
Episode 201 is about something a lot of guys don’t want to admit or talk about - porn addiction. In this episode, you’ll meet Sathiya Sam, a coach and speaker who helps men live with confidence and integrity.  He’s also the author of The Last Relapse, the host of the Unleash The ... Show More
52m 43s
Jun 2024
How to Gain Confidence, Boost Self-Esteem & Love Yourself More
EP92: In this episode of Boujee Best Friend, we're diving into building confidence and self-love. I’ll share a summer update, including my egg freezing journey and more details from the launch of my jewelry line with Wove. We’ll discuss confidence killers like too much screen tim ... Show More
26m 43s
Aug 2024
97. My Story of Overcoming Porn Addiction – A "WTF Do I Do Now" interview with Mandy Pitera & Jeremy Lipkowitz
In today&apos;s episode of &apos;Unhooked,&apos; I had the pleasure of being interviewed on the &apos;What the Fuck Do I Do Now?&apos; podcast with Mandy Pitera. Mandy is a dear friend and has graciously allowed me to share this interview here on Unhooked. So please go and suppor ... Show More
1 h
Jun 6
STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit | Margarita Nazarenko & Adam Lane Smith
In this conversation, Adam welcomes Margarita Nazarenko, a viral voice of tough love on relationships, for a deep, honest dialogue about anxious attachment, emotional patterns, and why so many women end up chasing emotionally unavailable men. Margarita offers clarity, accountabil ... Show More
55m 50s
Apr 2024
Improving Your Self-Esteem The Stoic Way [Edited]
Apparently this episode got uploaded only in part. I'm sorry it took me nearly a month to realize it (been busy with the new baby), but this is the full episode. Thanks for letting me know and for being patient.In today's episode of "Practical Stoicism," I tackle the deeply perso ... Show More
24m 10s
Nov 2024
When Seeking Validation Needs to Stop: Can Insecurity Evolve into Confidence?
Why hello my friends, welcome back to the seventh episode of ✨ Finding your Casual Magic ✨ DISCLAIMER: This episode discusses body insecurities and unhealthy relationships, listener discretion is advised. In this episode we’re talking about the magic that is self confidence!! At ... Show More
43m 4s
Sep 2023
Embracing Vulnerability: Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies for Mental Health and Healing
In this episode, Allison is joined by her partner Clay for an honest and introspective conversation about mental well-being, facing insecurities, cultivating more self-awareness and removing the masks we wear to the outer world. We are still very much navigating this territory bu ... Show More
1h 26m