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Jul 2024
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15. Why His Addiction Is NOT Your Fault ...

Mandy | Betrayal, Break Up & Empowerment Life Coach
About this episode

One of the hardest self-limiting beliefs I had to overcome on my healing journey was thinking his addiction was because I wasn't good enough, wasn't attractive enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc.

I HATED my body after discovering the betrayal and my self-confidence was gooonnneeeee. I thought if I was "better" or more attractive I could have prevented it. These are awful lies we tell ourselves, especially considering HIS ADDICTION STARTED BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IT STARTED BEFORE HE EVEN MET YOU.

In this episode, we dive into this and I back it up with what sexual addiction therapists have said as well. 

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