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Mar 2024
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3: Red Flags He May Watch a Lot of Porn ...

Mandy | Betrayal, Break Up & Empowerment Life Coach
About this episode

This episode discusses warning signs he may watch a lot of porn or have a potential porn addiction from women who discovered it in their relationships/marriages. Research continuously shows porn can rewire the brain and have a negative impact on relationships. Whether you're in a relationship or actively dating and vetting out potential partners, this episode contains information from betrayed partners navigating Partner Betrayal Trauma  (women who were in marriages/relationships and discovered their partner had a secret porn addiction years into the relationship).

Links to articles and research mentioned in the episode:
- https://uploads-ssl.webflow.com/61708b185d7d724acc2096da/61a5399eb4455c2a32f84d60_The_Secret_Sexual_Basement_Nov_2021.pdf
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/science-behind-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction/
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-can-distort-consumers-understanding-of-healthy-sex/
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/3-reasons-why-relationships-and-porn-dont-mix/
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https://fightthenewdrug.org/lets-talk-about-porn/

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