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Aug 2024
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Ep. 130 - Manipulation Tactic #1: Gaslig...

Michelle Maros & Barb Schmidt
About this episode

This week, Barb and Michelle are continuing the manipulation series by tackling this tough and common manipulation tactic: Gaslighting. They’re sharing examples from their personal lives on how gaslighting can present itself along with tips to take your power back.


In this episode, they talk about:

  • Awareness is the key to recognizing gaslighting
  • Gaslighting is a sneaky, disorienting, and gradual form of abuse
  • Gaslighters sow doubt and erode your own trust in yourself
  • How to take back your power and instill a new sense of confidence in yourself


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