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Aug 2024
37m 9s

Why Am I Always So Burnt Out?

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
About this episode
Why do some people have a tendency to feel more burnt out than others? Why is it so hard to break cycles of feeling depleted and drained? Why is it so hard for some people to say no, to set boundaries, and to care for their souls?  Today on the podcast, we start our brand new SOUL CARE SERIES to answer all these questions and dig into some of these importan ... Show More
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