Shownotes
How BDSM can be the secret to liberation
What allows humiliation to have an erotic aspect
The reason a man’s first job is to contain a woman
Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand
What led Om to his professional journey with BDSM
The difference between boundaries and control
Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together
Bio
Om Rupani is the author of Prerequisites to Ecstasy and has been teaching man-woman relating, sensuality, Tantra & BDSM for over 15 years through both in-person and online workshops worldwide.
His passion is to help men & women create thriving, functional and erotically vibrant relationships through his online courses.
Creating The Dominant Man is designed to help the modern man come into fuller embodiment of his masculinity, dominance and his leadership — both in the world and in his relationships with women.
And What Men Want: A Course For Women, which gives the modern woman a template for how she might create a passionate and harmonious relationship with the man who is ready and trained to lead, cherish and adore her.
Om deeply believes that a thriving erotic life needs to be at the center of a happy man-woman dynamic, and he believes we should investigate and embody our Eros in all its nuance and expression. He offers a robust training in the erotic arts, BDSM Fundamentals And Scene Play Training, which he feels all human beings on the planet should take.
Timestamps
From 1:09:25 to 1:10:35 MOOD ad - 1:10
00:00:29 - Guest introduction
00:03:17 - Om describes what containment actually means
00:07:13 - What Layla has wished for from past partners
00:07:19 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:10:45 - The importance of addressing upset in a contained state
00:13:25 - What brought Om to his professional journey in BDSM
00:14:20 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification
00:18:19 - The biological vulnerability of women
00:20:17 - Om explains what “bad containment” looks like
00:24:24 - What men have lost in the modern world
00:29:15 - Why niceness in a man doesn’t contain a woman
00:33:12 - Om believes men need to reclaim in wolf in them
00:35:32 - The difference between boundaries and control
00:36:08 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass and Men’s Sexual Mastery
00:41:39 - Coming home to your own safety as a woman
00:44:26 - What is a bratty submissive?
00:50:16 - The bitter pill Layla has had to swallow in her healing
00:54:17 - What does it look like to move out of pain and into devotion?
00:63:01 - How fundamental distrust of men keeps women from healthy relationships
01:09:25 - Discover MOOD Sexy Supplements
01:11:03 - Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together
01:15:19 - No one gets a free pass on dealing with their worthiness
01:20:28 - The truth about why a dom can hold safe space for you
01:28:27 - Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand
01:33:12 - Conclusion