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Jul 2024
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3 Powerful Tips to Boost Your Social Hea...

THE ART OF CHARM
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In today's episode, we explore the vital importance of social health, strategies to foster meaningful connections, and the transformative power of relationships with Kasley Killam, a renowned expert in social health and connection. Kasley has dedicated over a decade to advancing global well-being through her work with organizations like Google, the US Department of Health and Human Services, and the World Economic Forum. Her insights have been featured in prestigious publications such as The New York Times, Scientific American, and Psychology Today. In this episode, we uncover key takeaways from her book, "The Art and Science of Connection: Why Social Health is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier," available now.


Join us for an insightful conversation with Kasley Killam, where she explores the essential components of social health and the art of building meaningful connections. How can you enhance your social well-being in a world increasingly driven by technology and individualism? What are the fundamental practices to nurture quality relationships that truly enrich your life? Kasley shares her expert strategies for assessing and improving your social health, drawing from her extensive research and impactful work. Discover the transformative 531 guideline for social connection and the steps to integrate diverse, fulfilling relationships into your daily life.


What to Listen For

Introduction – 00:00:27

  • How does Kasley Killam's extensive background in social health and public health shape her approach to building meaningful connections?
  • What inspired Kasley to focus on social health and connection in her career?
  • How does Kasley define the concept of social health and its significance in today’s society?

How Can You Understand and Improve Your Social Health? – 00:02:15

  • Why does Kasley believe that social health is as important as physical and mental health?
  • How can you accurately assess your own social health?
  • What are the three core characteristics of being socially healthy?

How Does Technology Impact Your Social Health? – 00:10:28

  • How does technology influence our social health, both positively and negatively?
  • What are the pitfalls of relying too much on technology for social connections?
  • How can you use technology thoughtfully to enhance your social health?

What is the 531 Guideline and How Can It Transform Your Life? – 00:19:22

  • What is the 531 guideline and how can it help improve your social health?
  • How can you implement the 531 guideline in your daily life?
  • What are some practical examples of connecting with five different people each week?
  • How do you bring connection back into your life if you feel isolated?
  • What are the signs that the relationships you are in are not mutually beneficial and holding you back?

Why Should You Cultivate Diverse Relationships? – 00:36:18

  • Why is it important to have a diverse social portfolio?
  • How do connections with people from different backgrounds and cultures benefit your social health?
  • What steps can you take to build and maintain diverse relationships?

How Can You Prioritize Connection in a Busy Life? – 00:41:14

  • What small steps can you take to weave connection into your busy schedule?
  • How can you be present and prioritize quality over quantity in your interactions?
  • Why is it essential to balance alone time and social time, especially for introverts?

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