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Feb 2025
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220. From Social Anxiety to Social Cur...

SUSAN CALLENDER
About this episode

In this game-changing episode, I'm sharing the exact 5-step daily practice that's helping my high-achieving clients transform their social confidence and build meaningful connections that accelerate their success. This simple but powerful exercise has helped countless professionals overcome "toxic humility" and develop the social intelligence needed to advance their careers.

What You'll Learn

  • Why even the most competent professionals hit an invisible "social ceiling" in their careers
  • How to break free from the negative thought loops sabotaging your social confidence
  • The critical difference between confidence and arrogance (and why confusing them is holding you back)
  • A proven 5-question framework for building your "social confidence muscles" daily
  • The visualization technique that makes new confidence beliefs stick permanently
  • Why your relationship with yourself is the foundation of all your professional relationships

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Key Takeaway

"Your social skills are just as crucial to your success as your technical skills or work ethic. Maybe even more so as you advance in your career."

 

Connect With Me:

  • Linkedin/TikTok/Instagram: @SocialConfidenceCoach
  • Website: SocialConfidencePro.com

 

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