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210. The 5 BIGGEST red flags for relatio...

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We all know what red flags are, they tend to be universal at any age, but there are some redflags that are specific to our 20s, certain features of a relationship during this decade to look out for even if they don't look concerning at first. On today's episode we talk about the five biggest red flags for relationships in our 20s, including: 

  1. Relationships that stop you from having experiences
  2. Relationships that cause emotional chaos 
  3. Relationships that don't celebrate or encourage you
  4. All or nothing relationships 
  5. Fatal attractor relationships 

We also explore the psychology and of course the research behind why these can be so damaging to help us find more sustainable and healthy love during this decade. Listen now! 

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