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Jul 2024
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The Perfection Trap: Why Seeking the Per...

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Welcome to episode 405 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationship between perfectionism and OCD. Robert discusses how perfectionism, often linked to our inner critic, can hinder progress in managing OCD and anxiety.

Perfectionism can be a double-edged sword, sometimes motivating us but often holding us back. Robert explores how to recognize maladaptive perfectionism and adopt a healthier mindset. Drawing on insights from Dr. Robert Leahy and psychologist Carol Dweck, he highlights the importance of developing a growth mindset to overcome OCD-related challenges.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own limiting beliefs and inner critic, and to use practical strategies to create separation between themselves and these negative thoughts. By doing so, they can make meaningful progress in their journey to manage OCD and anxiety more effectively.

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Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

 

 

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