Send a question or comment via text message In this episode, Drew and Josh explore the powerful role of the internal critic—affectionately named "Craig"—in maintaining anxiety disorders and interfering with recovery. They discuss how this nagging inner voice criticizes, questions, and doubts us, often telling us we're doing things wrong or that we'll never b ... Show More
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Anxiety and The Obsession With Optimizing EVERYTHING (Episode 179)
Send a question or comment via text messageOptimization OCD seems to be a thing. Actually, across a large number of anxious people, the pull to get recovery, sleep, food, fitness, and even your own feelings exactly right is pretty common. This week we're talking about the drive t ... Show More
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Oct 23
Courage When Anxiety Feels Really Bad (Episode 178)
Send a question or comment via text message"Yeah, but it feels so bad." We hear it constantly, and this week we answer it directly. When panic, dread, or intrusive thoughts are at full volume, how do you practice willful tolerance? This is where courage enters the chat.We talk ab ... Show More
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May 2020
Ep. 106 How to handle the inner critic
This week on the podcast I’m talking about the number one issue I see in my clients. The inner critic.It’s big. Huge.It’s that fault finding, nit-picking, brain-niggling, mean-ass inner critic.AKA ‘The shitty committee’.The inner mean girl (or boy).Judgey McJudgerson.You get the ... Show More
11m 23s
Jul 2022
Ep 195. Why You Should Listen to the Inner Critic
When it comes to the inner critic, we're often told to quiet, shhhh, or get rid of the inner critic. In this podcast, I'm going to share how listening to the inner critic could be a valuable way to move past it instead.Download the High Functioning Anxiety hypnotherapy Pack at ht ... Show More
17m 12s
Aug 2025
#203: How to Soften Your Inner Critic and Forgive Yourself for the Past
If you struggle with a harsh inner critic — whether it shows up as perfectionism, relentless self-judgment, or shame about the past — this episode is for you. We’re unpacking the roots of that punitive inner voice, how it tries to keep us safe, and the real cost it can have on ou ... Show More
17 m
Nov 2023
The Inner Critic: Exploring JABS in Anxiety
In this episode, I want to introduce you to an acronym I've created called JABS: Judgment, Abandonment, Blame, and Shame, primarily directed inward. These emotional punches not only impact us but reverberate through our relationships and daily lives. Anxiety often has roots in un ... Show More
21m 54s
Jul 2025
How To Silence Your Inner Critic (For Real)
Do you ever notice that inner voice—the one that’s quick to judge or put you down, even though you’d never speak to a friend that way? In this episode of But Are You Happy, clinical psychologist Dr. Anastasia Hronis talks about how to deal with your inner critic, especially when ... Show More
43m 20s
Oct 2025
How to Quiet Self-Doubt and Stop Believing the Inner Critic
We all know the voice of self-doubt — it tells us we’re not ready, not enough, or don’t belong. In this episode, Dora reflects on her own experience of almost letting fear hold her back and shares mindful practices to label, soften, and move through self-doubt with compassion. Le ... Show More
4m 29s
Oct 2024
241. Are we our own worst critic?
Sometimes the loudest critic, our biggest hater is not someone we know, it is ourselves. We are the ones who are the first to judge ourselves, to shut ourselves and our ambitions down, to say the nastiest things. In today's episode we break down why we are our own worst critic, i ... Show More
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