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Jun 2024
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EP 450: Take a Break from Dating to Rewi...

DR. MORGAN ANDERSON
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Taking a break from dating IS NECESSARY at times, but it is only helpful if you work on yourself during the break.

Inside today’s episode I discuss:


  • How becoming the best version of oneself is crucial for attracting and maintaining a healthy, loving relationship.
  • Acknowledging that current dating approaches may not be working is the first step towards making positive changes.
  • Taking a break from dating allows for intentional work to rewire the brain for healthy love.
  • Seeking support and guidance is essential in the process of creating the desired relationship.
  • It is never too late to change and create the kind of relationship one desires.


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Episode Timestamps:


00:00 Introduction and Setting the Context

03:52 Acknowledging the Need for Change

06:46 Taking a Break from Dating

09:07 Rewiring the Brain for Healthy Love

15:20 The Importance of Seeking Support and Guidance

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