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Jun 2024
15m 53s

Creating Healthy Boundaries

MARK GREGSTON
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Parenting isn't just about setting rules; it's about defining the limits that help parents and teens understand who they are, what they stand for and how they relate to each other. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how setting boundaries differs from imposing rules and why they are essential for both parents and teens. They share practical steps on how to set clear, respectful guidelines that empower you as a parent and help your teen grow. Don’t miss out on these valuable insights that can transform your family's dynamic — listen now!

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