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How to Influence Your Teen

MARK GREGSTON
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Mark Gregston shares the most effective way to influence a teen — by spending intentional, consistent time together. He encourages parents to set aside weekly one-on-one moments starting around age 13 to build trust and open communication before conflict arises. These times should focus on listening, creating a safe space and being authentic, not lecturing or correcting. Over time, these consistent connections lay the foundation for deeper conversations and lasting influence during the turbulent adolescent years.

For more of Mark’s advice and resources to help you raise your teen, visit parentingtodaysteens.org

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. 



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