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Jun 2024
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Ep 145: Why we lie in relationships

Eva Beronius
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Send a text There are big lies in relationships, and then there are the small lies. How much we spent on that sweater, that we indeed are on our way (when we haven’t left the office), or that their loud chewing isn’t bothering us. In this episode, we look at why we lie or hide things from others, how it became automatic, and the hurt it’s protecting from. S ... Show More
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