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May 5
9m 37s

DETACH TO ATTRACT

Mafe Anzures
About this episode

In this episode we dive deep into one of the most powerful yet misunderstood principles of healing and manifestation: detachment.

Whether it’s a relationship, a goal, or a version of yourself you’re trying to become—clinging too tightly often creates resistance. But what happens when you learn to surrender? When you let go of control, expectation, and outcome?

I’ll walk you through why detaching doesn’t mean you stop caring—it means you start trusting. You’ll learn how to let go with love, create energetic space for what’s truly meant for you, and align with the version of you who no longer needs to chase.

With love, Mafe

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