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Jun 2024
1h 43m

150. top qualities in female friendships...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi my loves 💕 today we’re digging in to all things FRIENDSHIP: what qualities to look for, making friends in your 20s, feeling left out, attachments and ex-besties, and MORE!

00:00 intro
02:22 top traits to look for in friends
18:24 make high value friends on the same journey as you
27:09 being social when you have a hard time finding people who get you
31:40 when I met my true friends / letting people in
41:19 starting over to find friends in your late 20s
43:55 how to build a friendship group
50:50 attachment & jealousy
55:57 getting back with an ex-friend
58:27 heal from losing/missing friends
1:01:53 what does loyalty mean in a friendship
1:05:16 being avoidant with friends
1:11:41 not feeling close to other women
1:19:48 damages of venting & how to stop
1:22:05 friends who flake & seek validation
1:24:13 creating a discord for you to make friends
1:25:29 get into a positive mindset w/ trust issues
1:28:03 getting ghosted, unhealthy relationships, & loneliness
1:35:58 making friendships last

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