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May 2024
29m 10s

How to Put Yourself First + Stop Your Ne...

Allana Blumberg
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#179. The tendency to people please is more common than you think, but it doesn't have to be the way you "just" are. You have every power to change that and to grow into someone who is self-secure, confident and sure of themselves, their wants, needs, values and beliefs, and isn't afraid to state them even if they may not align with the next person. Lan shar ... Show More
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