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May 2024
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2342: The Porn Addiction Solution With S...

SAL DI STEFANO, ADAM SCHAFER, JUSTIN ANDREWS, DOUG EGGE
About this episode
  • His background and how he got into the field of pornography. (1:57)

  • The silent epidemic of pornography. (3:49)

  • Tapping into something that is so biologically wired into us. (8:43)

  • The deeper the hooks go, the harder it is to get out of it. (10:29)

  • How this can mold a child’s brain. (13:58)

  • At what moment did he notice a problem and how did he stop? (17:02)

  • Is there an archetype that tends to be addicted? (20:06)

  • What’s on the other side of this? (21:17)

  • Porn vs. video game addiction. (23:38)

  • What drives someone to stop? (27:40)

  • Why porn is an intimacy disorder. (30:39)

  • The 3 Pillars of Recovery.

  • #1 - Emotional fitness. (32:19)

  • #2 – Transformation of the heart. (33:03)

  • #3 – Identity shifting. (33:30)

  • How the things that we watch bring clues to our trauma. (34:36)

  • The need for more protection for minors. (40:48)

  • The four major effects on the brain. (44:47)

  • Porn and ADHD. (48:50)

  • Common triggers connected to pornography addiction. (49:49)

  • The pressure on women with body image issues. (53:38)

  • Fast food intimacy. (56:59)

  • Sobriety vs. freedom. (1:00:35)

  • Getting in touch with your future self. (1:05:52)

  • Casting a new vision to stay motivated. (1:08:26)

  • Porn, the modern-day cigarette. (1:11:29)

  • Is there a cultural shift? (1:12:53)

  • Some examples of the craziest situations he has helped people through. (1:13:45)

  • The benefits of quitting porn. (1:17:13)

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