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Apr 2023
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Episode 184: The Truth About “Porn Addic...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
About this episode
How does porn affect us? And are people becoming "addicted" to it? Today, we're going to begin a four-part series on the science of porn to better understand its effects. For our first show, we’re going to discuss why different studies of porn have yielded different conclusions, why porn shouldn’t be thought of as addictive in the same way that drugs are, whether there’s a link between porn and sexual violence, as well as how we can have more productive conversations about pornography. I’m joined by Dr. Nicole Prause, a licensed psychologist and sex researcher who founded the sexual biotechnology company Liberos. She is a former Kinsey Institute trainee and has published an extensive body of research on the neuroscience and psychophysiology of sex. She is currently a scientist at the University of California, Los Angeles in the Department of Medicine. Some of the topics we discuss on this show include:
  • What counts as porn anyway, and how can you accurately measure porn use on surveys when different people hold different definitions of porn?
  • Why are there so many discrepant findings in the scientific literature about pornography's effects?
  • Why shouldn't we think of porn as addictive? How should we think of it instead?
  • When people identify porn as a problem in their lives, is porn per se really the issue or is there something else going on?
  • In what ways can porn potentially have positive effects on people?
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