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May 2024
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Ep 143: How to get out of questioning yo...

Eva Beronius
About this episode

“I want this but I’m not sure it’s reasonable to ask for it.”
“Is it me or them?”
“I want to be with them but I’m not getting what I want.”

When we’ve learned to doubt what we want, and feel stuck in not having our needs met and constantly being pulled back into a core wound - we’re more likely to look for “the right choice” which keeps us in an inner conflict of what that is.

In this episode, we check back in with Wey and look at a way to acknowledge all sides of an inner conflict. So that you can empty out the emotions, clearly feel what you want AND heal a core wound all at once.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep142: How your reactive patterns keep you from becoming YOU
Ep127; Align with your soul - Live coaching #6 with Wey
Ep73: Do I follow every desire?
Ep116: What I want - from integrity or ego?



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