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Feb 2024
44m 32s

Insecurity in Tango: Conquering Jealousy

IMSO Tango
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<p>In this episode, I explore the topic of jealousy in tango. I reflect on my personal experience with jealousy and how it has affected my relationships. I discuss the different types of jealousy that tango dancers experience, particularly focusing on the insecurities and fears that women often face. I emphasize the importance of embracing solitude and reco ... Show More
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