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May 2024
1h 12m

Managing The “Fight” Response: Anger, Re...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
About this episode
Dr. Rick and Forrest continue their series on the stress responses with the “fight” response to stress. They explore anger, repression, and the balance of self-expression and self-regulation before talking about how we can claim the adaptive aspects of the fight response without falling prey to its more problematic aspects. A major focus of the episode is re ... Show More
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